Monday, August 31, 2009

Monday August 31, 2009

LESSONS LEARNED – THE PATH TO SUCCESS

During this ride I have set goals, measured what works and does not work in meeting those goals and had the time to reflect and think about life.

One of the short term goals I have set is to be in a location on Sunday morning where I can attend church. In Nebraska, the Mormon churches are about 175 miles apart on the route that I am taking. And since I also take many detours to see historical sites, find food, water and camping sites, I usually ride at least 110% of the map distance. That means that in a week I can make a paltry 190 miles (average 32 miles per day) or aim for a respectable 390 miles (average 65 miles per day). This past week I went for the 390 mile mark. It’s hard to average 65 miles per day because some days are spent learning about history. Blogging, eating and bicycle maintenance and other tasks also take quite a bit of time.

I have finally got to the point where I can ride long and hard and cover 60+ miles in a good day or 30+ miles with a strong headwind. However, in the past I have always felt the pain with every mile and closely measured the distance to the next checkpoint. I sometimes got angry and frustrated with the constant headwinds and other problems that came up

This past week with the days of headwinds and flat tires I got behind schedule and needed a lot of help to catch up. I have always prayed for strength to help me ride but lately I have prayed for Heavenly Father to manage the results and improve my character. My attitude now is that I want to do what is right and follow his commandments but I turn over the actual production of the results to him. I commit to following whatever he tells me to do through the Holy Spirit and at the end of the day I see what has happened.

The difference is amazing. I do not feel the pain. I do not measure each mile and each checkpoint. I ride and communicate through prayer and receive information about what I should do. I still get flat tires and ride against headwinds but the results have been phenomenal. On Saturday I rode 95 miles to get to church and it seemed easy. I am happier and do not get angry and frustrated with disruptions of my plans. In fact I now welcome problems as the Lords way of helping me increase faith, strength and character growth. He has promised that he will never give you problems beyond what you can handle with his help. The harder the problems you encounter the stronger the Lord considers your character. It is like receiving an “Atta Boy, you are improving”.

Although I have applied this (turn everything over to God) principle to my own adventure I think that it would work even better when applied to a “Service Task” or a “Building the Kingdom of God” task. When you are in a position of serving others and you need capabilities far beyond your own, God will increase your physical, mental, and moral strength and abilities to meet the need of the current situation. And he lets you keep the increased strength and capabilities.

I had a great day at Church. I met interesting people who were fun to talk to. Unfortunately I slept through part of the meeting but the talks and lessons that I heard were to the point and applied directly to what I needed to hear. Bishop and Sister Taylor invited me for dinner. It was a fine meal combined with lots of interesting conversation and sharing of knowledge. They also invited another sister (Lisa) over for dinner. Bishop Taylor is a pediatrician and Lisa is a nurse so I learned much about the life of medical professionals. The Taylor’s have an outstanding young family of four girls and two boys. The oldest girl is 14 years and the youngest baby is 2 months old. The older children do a good job of helping with the younger children and carrying out home duties. Sister Taylor is a great cook and a great manager of family business and it was a pleasure to see a growing young family learning about what it takes to progress in life. If we have enough families like this then America will continue to be strong.

The rest of this week’s blog are a few pictures that I have not posted yet. I am in Scottsbluff Nebraska about 20+ miles from the Wyoming border. Today I will try to buy puncture resistant tires, get a Wyoming map and then continue on into Wyoming.

6 comments:

  1. Dad, This is probably my all time favorite post. I know I say that a lot, but really, this post was testimony building. I am so glad you felt comfortable sharing it with us all. We all have a lot to learn in this earth life and we must rely on our Heavenly Father. You are doing such a great job - we are so proud of you!
    Steph

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  2. Bishop,

    This is Nathan Campbell, Aaron & Lilias Campbell's son. I was truly strengthened and edified by what you wrote. What a great thing you are doing. I always appreciated the time I was able to spend at your home with you, Kathleen and your wonderful family as a Home Teacher. I have always looked up to you. I appreciate your testimony and how you have dealt with and are dealing with trials and challenges.

    -Nathan

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  3. Larry Fugal--

    I don't know if you remember me, but I'm an old college roommate of Stephanies from BYU-Hawaii--it's Amy. Anyway, as I kept reading I was hoping you'd come across Scottsbluff--I lived there as a kid. (Gering actually). My grandma still lives there. Anyway, what a great adventure you're on and some great insights. Good luck!

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  4. Hi Larry-it's Kathleen Speir from the Suncrest 1st ward-Just wanted to say thanks for this post. I needed to hear that today. Funny how you know things but need to be reminded so you can refocus. Thanks too for you gospel doctrine lessons on the BofM back in the old 9th West building-many of them have stayed with me all these years and have helped me view the book of mormon differently than I ever would have. You have great insight and inspiration. Keep on biking! You're amazing!

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  5. Hi Bishop Larry
    I saw your blog on FB posted by Steph and was interested because 1) I love to bike as well. 2) Wondered if you had crossed Missouri. We live in Columbia. I think it is SO great that you are keeping a journal of your adventure and it almost reminds me of the autobiography of PPP because he talks about how he met up with so many people who provided him food and lodging and the miracles that took place. We have fallen in love with all the church history sites in the midwest, especially Carthage and Nauvoo. We visit there often. I had to laugh at you starting out with that much weight and your wheat grinder. My husband went on a short overnight bike trip and he had a trailer and wanted to take camping chairs. Our kids our young now, but when they are grown I would love to go on bike tours all over the world. Say hi to Ang for me. I don't see her often enough even though I will love her always. Best of luck to you. Wished we could have provided lodging to a weary traveler. :)
    Lisa (Young) Hill

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  6. I also found your blog from Stephanie's facebook. What a cool adventure you are having! My in-laws live very near Cumberland, MD. My FIL is always telling us about that great bike trail. I had lunch with Shawnelle a couple of summers ago when we were in Utah(We live in Louisiana) It was great to remember all the fun times we had as kids. Look forward to reading about the rest of your trip!
    Lisa Norton Anderson

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